Why You’re Still Attracting Broke, Toxic Love
Why You’re Still Attracting Broke, Toxic Love
And How to Stop Settling for Struggle Love
We need to talk.
Because you’re too powerful to keep playing small in love.
If you’re attracting emotionally unavailable, manipulative, broke, inconsistent, or just flat-out dusty energy — it’s not because you’re cursed.
It’s because you’re vibrating at the level of your unhealed wounds, not your highest standards.
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The Truth: Your Frequency Picks Your Partner
Love is energy.
And the people we attract reflect one of two things:
• What we believe we deserve
• Or what we’re still trying to heal
That’s why people keep ending up in the same situations with different faces.
You heal your frequency — you change your entire type.
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So Why Are You Still Attracting That Energy?
Let’s keep it real:
• You think you can fix them. (Spoiler: You can’t.)
• You’re operating in survival mode, not sacred standards.
• You feel guilty walking away.
• You’ve normalized dysfunction because it feels familiar.
• You’re still trying to earn love you never got.
• You don’t fully believe you’re worthy of more.
Sound familiar? That’s your shadow work calling.
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Struggle Love Is Not Your Birthright
You were not born to be a ride-or-die for someone who won’t even live right.
You were not meant to prove your worth through suffering.
You were not created to tolerate emotional chaos just to say you’re not alone.
That’s not love. That’s trauma bonding.
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What You Tolerate Teaches People How to Treat You
And if your standards aren’t clear — your frequency is open to anything.
So let’s flip the energy.
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How to Stop Attracting Broke, Toxic Love
1. Do the Shadow Work
Ask yourself:
• What part of me thinks this is love?
• Where did I first feel like I had to earn love?
• What wound is this person soothing — or scratching?
Use a Sacred Frequency journal to go deep. Soul Mirror is perfect for this.
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2. Cleanse Their Energy Out of Your System
You can’t attract divine love while carrying energetic residue from your ex.
Try:
• Clean Break Bath Soak
• Cutting Cord Candle Ritual
• A spirit doll for protection or emotional release
Release. Reset. Reclaim your aura.
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3. Reprogram What You Think Love Is
Love is not:
• Convincing someone to choose you
• Waiting for someone to change
• Begging for effort, honesty, or consistency
• Sacrificing your peace for a maybe
Love is peace. Growth. Security. Connection. Respect. Spiritual alignment.
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4. Vibrate in Alignment with What You Deserve
You want emotionally intelligent, healed, stable, secure love?
You’ve got to become that for yourself first.
Rituals for attraction:
• Love Spell Bath Soak
• Manifestation doll for divine partnership
• Frequency Codes: Love Edition to align your desires with your energy
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The Love You Deserve Isn’t Just Out There — It’s Waiting for You to Align
You are not crazy.
You’re not hard to love.
You’re just ready for something your old self could never hold.
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Say it out loud:
“I release struggle love. I attract aligned love. I am love.”
Because you deserve love that feels like safety, not survival.
