Toxic Love
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“Snooze Alarm: A Wake-Up Ritual for Toxic Love”
Purpose:
To release toxic attachment, end emotional illusions, and reclaim your time, peace, and power.
Inspired by:
“I can’t lose when I’m with you…” (Snooze – the delusion of love that hurts)
“Been away, I’ve been on the run…” (Broken Clocks – realizing you’ve been chasing something that doesn’t exist)
What You’ll Need:
A black candle (for ending cycles)
A cracked or dollar store alarm clock (representing broken time)
A piece of string or ribbon
Pen & paper
Bowl of water with a pinch of salt (cleansing tears)
Your favorite lipstick or marker
The Ritual (Do on a waning moon, or Friday night to cut love ties)
Step 1: Write Your Truth
Write the person’s name and a few lines that reflect your pattern with them. End it with:
“I pressed snooze too many times, now I’m wide awake.”
Step 2: Bind and Break
Wrap the paper in the string and say:
“This tie I cut, I call back my mind.
What’s toxic can stay, but I’m no longer blind.”
Place the bundle in front of the candle.
Step 3: Time’s Up
Hold the broken or dollar store clock and say:
“Broken time, broken promises, I free myself from false hope.
No more waiting, no more wasting. I reclaim my soul.”
Drop it into the bowl of salt water.
Step 4: Flame of Clarity
Light the black candle and say:
“With this flame, I burn through illusion.
Snoozed too long, now I rise in conclusion.”
Let it burn down (or extinguish it safely if needed).
Step 5: Kiss it Goodbye
On your mirror (or a window), use your lipstick or marker to write:
“I woke up.”
Kiss it with intention. Then wipe it off, symbolizing clarity and detachment.
Whewwww okay, so if they don’t mind keeping toxic love—we’re not releasing, we’re reinforcing! Here’s the remix:
“Still Snoozin’: A Ritual for Embracing That Toxic Love (on Purpose)”
Purpose:
To lean all the way into the chaos you crave. This ritual isn’t about healing—it’s about holding onto that wild, passionate, messy love that probably isn’t good for you… but damn, it’s addictive.
Inspired by:
“I don’t wanna lose what we had last time… your love is what I need.” (Snooze)
“Run past you, fine as hell and I still can’t choose…” (Broken Clocks)
What You’ll Need:
A red candle (for passion… and danger)
Honey (for sticking to that sweet mess)
A shot of dark liquor or a glass of wine (optional, but encouraged)
A lipstick kiss (on a mirror, photo, or napkin)
A toxic trait written down that you’re knowingly accepting
The Ritual (Ideally done on a Friday night with zero regrets):
Step 1: Light It Up
Light the red candle and whisper:
“This flame ain’t clean, but it’s mine.
Burn me sweet and burn me fine.”
Step 2: Write the Truth
Write down the person’s name and one toxic trait you’re choosing to tolerate. Say:
“I see it. I sip it. I still want it.”
Step 3: Sweeten the Chaos
Drizzle a little honey on the paper and fold it toward you. Say:
“Stick with me through highs and hell.
A love like this, I drink the spell.”
Take your shot or sip your wine.
Step 4: Sealed with a Kiss
Put on your favorite lipstick and kiss a mirror, a photo, or anything that symbolizes the relationship. Say:
“Toxic or not, I’m in this deep.
I might get burned, but I won’t lose sleep.”
Step 5: Leave It Burning
Let the candle burn for at least 7 minutes. While it burns, play your go-to “wrong love feels right” playlist (I got you if you want one). Sit in your decision. Don’t justify it—own it.
“I may be in love with the mess,
But I do it well, I won’t confess.
I choose this fire, I’ll pay the cost.
Even in losing, I don’t feel lost.”
Hopefully by the time you reach this message you realize the first ritual is the answer.
